You’ll find that the people validating your contrived persona doesn’t feel as good as you thought it would because it’s not *you* they’re validating but the person you wish you were. You take what they say as a personal attack, even when it was not directed at you because you’re terrified at the thought of somebody seeing you for who you truly are. Since you dislike yourself, you’ll find that you easily forget about the hundreds of people who validate you on a daily basis and focus on the few authentic dissenters because you know deep down what the dissenters are saying is true. ![]() Validating your falsehood is the same as validating their own. ![]() Your fellow fakes will give you all the validation you ask for because they’ve found a mirror in you. Sure, you can find/build communities using your contrived persona, but once the real people recognize what’s going on and slowly move out of these communities, you fakes will find yourselves surrounded by those who are as inauthentic as you.
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